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Are you thirsty...
Thirst and Hunger are common experiences if you are depressed. But Isaiah tells us it is a prerequesite for finding God. Are you thirsty... More ...
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Opinion and Hubris
Psychiatry is not an exact science, yet I give a lot of opinions in my work. How is this possible? How can I keep it real! More ...
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Who are your heroes?
Are you waiting up for a hero in the field of Christian Mental Health? Or are there already hundreds who just need to be found? More ...
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Overlearning Conquerors
Will you settle for survival - being aware of the truth but never living in its power - or will you become more than a conqueror by something called overlearning More ...
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Survey Monkey
The Catholic Church are conducting two surveys on what it means to be an active Christian in Healthcare. Take part and get your Chief Executive to do the same. More ...
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Inspiring faith
Lucinda Van Der Hart writes about Maggie Ellis and her decision to become a psychosexual therapist to help victims of rape in the south of England. More ...
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ASBO Jesus
The real Jesus can cause offense to those living in his neighbourhood More ...
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Famous and Flat
Why do so many celebrities seem to struggle with their mental health? Three reasons - some are their fault, others ours... More ...
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Resources and Relationships
Our resources are in our relationships. It's not what you know but who you know. This may sound unfair but it is the way the world works More ...
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What are you building?
Am I involved in maintenance or transformation? Do I have the faith that God can do something amazing? He is still in the business of shaking things up. More ...
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The Drug Addicts Psalm
Jackie Pullinger in the Walled City describes what it is like to be a drug addict - and that God understands More ...
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Freud and Pharmacology
I'm in Vienna this week - and it got me thinking about how different world views compete for the claim to best understand human distress More ...
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The Rhetoric of Elihu
Elihu is the bridge that enables Job to listen to God when his 'comforters' had previously wound him up. He demonstrates key skills in cognitive therapy to navigate the so-called hot-cross bun. More ...
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Life Events and Difficulties
Marriage - a potential source of stress, or a great blessing? Why I don't believe in the usual explanations for why some people get stressed and others don't More ...
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Sensitivity and Sensuality
Sensitivity is the abililty to take a correct and balanced view on life: something that cannot be done in the grips of an eating disorder More ...
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Fasting and Eating Disorders
Christians are encouraged to fast; but how does this relate to someone with a current or past eating disorder? Is food the only way to fast? More ...
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Scared of God...
When we are depressed, it can feel like God is a million miles away and wants to have nothing to do with us: I mean who would... The reality could not be further from the truth More ...
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Albert Ellis dies
A giant of REBT and CBT dies, but was his legacy all it might have been? Is it possible that we can learn great truths, yet fall so far short of Truth? More ...
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My brothers keeper...
I am my brothers keeper and responsible for those around me. This is vital if we are to reach those who struggle. We have been transformed so that we might transform others More ...
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A bias for the poor?
I work with many poor people. Thank heavens the NHS funds this. But surely the church should be leading the way? Is there a bias in the gospel for the poor, or just the trapped? More ...
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Affinity or Community
If I just like people who are like me, this may be fun - but it is merely Affinity and not the Community that Jesus called us to and died for More ...
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Facts and Feelings
Jonathan Edwards feels like God doesn't exist anymore. Is this important? More ...
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CMF Breakfast for Psychiatrists
Too strong or too weak with our witness is no good - Dr Kevin Vaughan advocates a saline solution at this years RCPsych CMF breakfast More ...
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Psychologies
Psychology is a science as much as anything else, but just because something is measurable, even common, doesn't mean it is right. The new Psychologies glossy mag is critiqued More ...
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The original health service
A Deaconess used to be a Parish Nurse, but now thte NHS does all that - or does it. This article examines how we can start a return to holistic healthcare. More ...
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Broken Hearts
Jesus did not come to criticise those with broken hearts - for he does not despise this state. But He did come to bind them up and heal them. More ...
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Links and Search Engines
Help us with our rankings in Google and other search engines by linking to us. People can then easily find us when they search for Mind and Soul. More ...
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How much Patience?
How long should you work with someone before 'giving up'. Is everyone worth the effort? How do you decide where to prioritise your time? More ...
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An Engagement with Grace
Last week I got engaged to Susanna, but what does this mean for me and for those seeking emotional health? More ...
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Soft Spots and Blind Spots
My soft spots allow me to have blind spots - and this can be both a help and a hinderence More ...
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The person behind the problem
Why do models of health and illness fail to satisfy? Where have all the passionate people gone - lost behind models? What is the best model and how does it relate to these others? More ...
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City, Sitting Pretty
What makes a city a success? What can a city be like if we build it for God and for mental health? More ...
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Creative Futures
By default we will tend to REPEAT our pasts. How can we learn to listen to our pasts so that we can CREATE new futures? More ...
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Seeds of Hope
There's always hope no matter what it seems like - but it's vital to introduce it in a way people can accept rather than laugh blackly at More ...
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Between Vines
Should we run away from situations or stay? And if we do run, what's it like before we land somewhere else? More ...
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Inside-out Spirituality
There are two ways of looking at our faith and what other people can see. I have been supervising a research project... More ...
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CBT for Puddleglum
Are gloomy people more likely to get depressed and can anything be done about it? More ...
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Famous Faces
How many of these famous people did you know were psychiatrists? More ...
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A painful recovery
What are the requirements for successful therapy - John 21 gives us four criteria More ...
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Limits of competence
How do I know when I can't help people or when they are too 'well' to see a psychiatrist [but think they need to!] More ...
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Forgiveness as process
It doesn't happen overnight. It takes a LONG time sometimes!!! More ...
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Tell or not tell
Should we ask people to tell us ALL the details, even in something as horrific as abuse? More ...
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Regrets, Aye. Doubts, No!
What was it that enable Eric Liddle to take the perspective he did on sport and can we learn from him? More ...
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Guilt or Shame?
Sometimes a bit of guilt or shame is appropriate - sometimes it isn't More ...
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Multiple Personality Disorder
What's the difference between multiple personality disorder and demon posession? More ...
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Anger Management
There are stages in peoples' responses and you can learn to control it More ...
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Rat Race
Your in a rat race - or is there another way to define yourself? More ...
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My fellow lepers
As a psychiatrist, it can be tempting to take a paternalistic attitude, but it won't get you very far. Nor will you learn very much More ...
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What can be done?
Are these some people who we can never help? What is the best way to love them? More ...
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Recognising a problem
The former archbishop of york moves onto intresting ground at the Royal College of Psychiatrists conference. More ...
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The law of least love
Jesus understands what it is like to get dumped on for doing the right thing More ...
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Beattitudes for today
Jesus isn't making crazy promises for the poor of the world, he is asking for faith even though they are poor and to persevere none the less More ...
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Stigma for the son
His name is Jesus and he understands what it is like to be hated and thought mad More ...
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For the hesitant and guilt-ridden
Is religion just a crutch or has it become trendy again More ...
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Images in the mind
Some Christians believe that they should NEVEr have a bad thought or image, but this only makes things worse More ...
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Transactional Analysis can help us understand why we mis-represent God More ...
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How not to do it
This technique really annoyed me! this is probably the worst thing you could say to someone who is depressed. It cuts to the bone but doesn't heal More ...
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Eros - the real story
Althogh Eros may be the god of Love, the statue is about something completely different More ...
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Christians and Therapy
Should Christians have therapy and which one? Is there a right answer or just a pragmatic one? More ...
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Loneliness at Christmas
Christmas can be a very difficult time for people with mental illness - everyone else seems to be with someone or at a party More ...
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I've got troubles of my own
If you follow the advice of Keane, you will end up in an emotional spiral leading to depression More ...
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It ain't what they call you
See how Whoopi Goldberg deals with name-calling and abuse... More ...
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Therapy Through Sunglasses
Sometimes knowing that it is OK not to see clearly is more important than getting a clear answer More ...
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How to dismantle your father
U2 give us some valuable advice for dealing with a less than helpful father in your youth More ...
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Church: help or hinderance
Is the local church a sanctuary, a solution or a place of suffering for those who already suffer? Which is right? More ...
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Introducing spirituality
When I meet a new client for the first time, I try to talk to them about Jesus - but how do you start the coversation? More ...
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People or Purpose
A meeting with the Chief Executive of Bradford District Care Trust More ...
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Insignificance
The benefits of obscurity and how to find self-esteem there More ...
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Why we behave as we do
Run away, Run away - was the advice given by Monty Python - but we don't do it! More ...
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Two-stage Renewal
All over the world there are Christians trying to renew their minds by reading scripture, praying for the spirit, worshipping and trying to be better people - but it's not working! More ...
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First do no harm
If something si powerful enough to do good, it is powerful enough to do harm. This week I started a new job More ...
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Zero-gravity thinking
How can we break free of patterns laid down by those who came before us, especially whne those do not work or even cause harm? More ...
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Heaviness
Sometimes I feel heavy - not depressed as such, just heavy and weary. It can also be accompanied by lots of rumination and anxious thoughts about this and that and everything. More ...
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The Sword of the Lord
Am I ready for this to be evidenced in my life? Or will my own failings and falleness obscure that withc should be giving glory to God? More ...
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Lossless Compression
I'm reading some M Scott Peck at the moment: The Road Less Travelled. I was also teaching about depression yesterday at the University of Leeds and so had to exlain the concept of loss. More ...
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